No man wants a woman with absolutely no sex appeal. I'm not saying that you have to walk around everyday in your "Freak 'em dress" but every now and then isn't asking too much. We all know that men are more visual while us women are more emotional. They're turned on by what they see. If you are one of those women that go all out in the dating stage and then once you have him you let yourself go...you'll find yourself alone at the same club he found you in.
Getting a man is the easy part. When he meets you you're all done up. Whenever you guys go out on a date you're fly as hell! Hair done, makeup just right, jeans fitting tight and stiletto heels to top it all off! But once you've got him things start to change. You find yourself lounging around in slippers and old sweats. Now I'm not saying you have to be laid out in lingerie and strippers shoes every night but if you're gonna go "comfortable" with it throw on some boy shorts and a cut-off tee. If that's not your style then go for the good ol' t-shirt and panties. It hasn't steered me wrong yet. Ladies when I say panties I don't mean the big old cotton fruit of the loom ones. Save those for that special time of the month. When it comes to men...the smaller the panties the better!
I know some people are reading this and going, "That's just not me. I'm not a hoe!" I'm not saying you are or that you HAVE to be one to keep a man. I'm just saying that you have to keep doing whatever it is you were doing when you snagged him. If you were looking hella sexy the night he met you it's safe to assume that that's what he likes and that's probably what he'll expect from you should you guys enter into a relationship.
Before you really get to know each other and figure out what turns him on, it's all about your presentation. It's the way you look at him, the way you speak to him, your conversation, and yes...your outer appearance. We'd all be lying to ourselves if we said looks didn't play a role in the initial attraction.
Once you get to know him a little better and you've figured out what turns him on, give it to him. Every man is different. You have to learn yours. Some men are turned on by an intelligent woman, dressed in a business suit and heels. Her hair is pulled back in a bun with glasses resting on the tip of her nose. You have to learn your man. He may not want to see you in stripper shoes every Friday night. You have to switch it up. The key to a lasting relationship is to keep things fresh.
A lot of men seek women who have what someone I know calls "switch game." What is "switch game?" It's the ability to be presentable, poised and well spoken in public but behind closed doors you're the freak he needs you to be. It's called "switch game" because you can switch back and forth between the two roles as need be. It's exactly like the whole "freak in the bedroom but a lady in public" concept. A lot of men love that!
Ladies you have to do you. The same things that make me sexy to one man may not make you sexy to another. You have to get in touch with your inner sexy. Seek it. Find it. Become familiar with it. You'll have to tap into that sexiness more often that you think! Now go get your sexy back!
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